Sunday, August 17, 2008

This I Believe. The Plan of Salvation. Part I

I absolutely believe that God has a plan for His children. Not only as a group but for each of us individually. I believe that we existed before we came to earth. We lived with our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. I believe that we associated with one another and knew each other before we came to Earth. We were taught the principles of righteousness and we learned about our Fathers plan for us. We could not progress any further without receiving a physical body. We were to come here to grow and learn. To walk by faith and to prove that we would do whatsoever the Lord commands. It sounds so simple doesn't it? We are told that we shouted with joy when we heard the plan. We were so excited to get these bodies of ours and to show our Father that we would always choose Him! I sometimes try to imagine Our Fathers reaction to our joy. He knew that some of His precious children wouldn't return to Him. There was probably some sorrow amongst the joy in His eyes.
This world was created for us to fulfill the plan of salvation. I find as I see the marvels of this world, as I go into the woods or sit beside a stream or see the magnificent mountains or the vast oceans and I have a little quiet time (obviously without my kids!) I feel closer to my Heavenly Father. I feel Their love for us when I see all the beautiful things that they created for no other reason but to give us joy! "Whenever I hear the song of a bird, or look at the blue, blue, sky. Whenever I feel the rain on my face or the wind as it rushes by...." So true.I believe that not only did God and Jehovah create this Earth on which we live but that they also created man, Adam, and woman, Eve. I believe, as the scriptures say, that He created us in His own image. Adam and Eve were placed in the Garden of Eden and they were given some instruction. One of the most important gifts that our Heavenly Father has given them, me and everyone is free agency. We are free to choose. He will not force us to make wise choices.
I think as a parent that it is extremely difficult to do at times. How many times have I told my kids to do something because I know better, because I am the mom and that they just need to trust me. I have a difficult time watching them make silly mistakes when I know better. How much more difficult would it be for Him to watch us make not only silly mistakes but mistakes that will cause us and those we love such sorrow, pain or unhappiness? What a powerful gift we were given. He knows that whatever your choice, you are also choosing a consequence. Consequences may appear immediately or may come much later. But choosing good eventually leads to happiness, and wrong choices eventually lead to unhappiness. Heavenly Father allows you to make choices and experience their consequences so you may learn the difference between good and evil. Adam and Eve learned about free agency, choices and about consequences. Because of the choices they made they were cast out of the Garden of Eden, were cut off from the presence of their Father and of Jehovah and were now susceptible to pain and sorrow but also joy and peace. This Fall of Adam and Eve was part of our Fathers plan and He had a way for us to be saved from the Fall and from the poor choices we would make.
He would send His Son, Jesus Christ, to voluntarily suffer and pay for my sins, pains, sicknesses, and sorrows. Through the Atonement He can help me in my trials and relieve me of the guilt and shame that result from my sins. Though He paid for my sins, Jesus did not eliminate my agency or personal responsibility; He will not make me clean against my will. To make His Atonement fully effective in my life I have to exercise faith in Him, repent and choose to follow him continually.
The Plan of Salvation is also often called the Plan of Happiness. Our Father wants us to have joy. To have the freedom of making our own choices and experiencing the consequences. He wants us to learn and to grow and He loves us so much that He was willing to send His Beloved Son to pay for us to have these experiences! This Infinite Atonement is what makes this plan the Plan of Happiness for without it we would be cut off from our Father forever. No wonder when we heard of the Atonement we shouted for joy! How can I ever struggle in doing my small part?

Thursday, August 14, 2008

I am alive and trying to survive!

Oh my stars! I am so tired! I haven't posted in a while because I have been so swamped. I honestly can't believe how much has been going on at our house. Here is a summary:
We went to the Bountiful parade for the 24th. We watched the parade with Sara and Jenn and some cousins. Josh pushed a handcart in the parade.

Later that night I had a wonderful chance to visit with some old and dear friends from Chi Theta Chi. Love these gals. We had a great 24th at my wonderful in-laws home. We watched fireworks both big and small. We watched Mark and Brittney destroy the bathroom, and we watched Aaron, Josh and Dave jump over things! We played with cousins and we had our yearly visit with the Hallman's and Erik! The tired demolition crew. He makes those Olympic hurdlers look so weak!

We started swimming lessons with some cousins and also did tennis lessons without cousins.We went to Lagoon. Josh went to Scout Camp. So did Dave for a few days. Just long enough to never ever want to be Scoutmaster! Josh and I also got to go to the Bountiful Temple for his first time doing Baptisms. It was fun to be there with him. Football has also started. sigh. Last week a huge portion of my time was spent planning for, getting ready for and actually attending the LDSBA Convention. It is quite the event! LDS Bookstores from all over the world (yes, there are LDS bookstores all over the world!) come for 3 days to see all the new stuff that is available to sell. Alyssa and I spent so much time together framing, packing, setting up, selling, framing some more and laughing hysterically! It is a good thing that I like that girl. We would literally be together until 1:00 in the morning to turn around and be together at 8:00 that same morning not to be apart until 6:30pm. Yea, I totally stole this from your blog!

We spent a few days up at East Canyon with Tricia and her kids. We had a great time swimming almost constantly! Every now and then we did other things like mini golf and playing at the beach with Andrew, Sam and Lauren. Thanks Mom for letting us use your condo!"Yea, I still look good. Did you see my legs?"Uncle Andrew methodically threw in Josh, Jacob, Kass and Sam into the lake. The thing that has most consumed our lives is that in the last 2 weeks we have completely remodeled 2 rooms. The amazing thing is that neither room was at our house. We did a bathroom at my in-laws house and a bedroom now office at my mothers house. Don't ask me how we manage to do both projects during the same weeks but that is how we roll! So I would literally go from painting one room, drive madly into Sugarhouse to paint another. What a joke! My in-laws have needed a new bathroom for a while so my crazy brother-in-law, Mark, took on the project. We were among the helpers until he left on vacation then we took over the mudding, taping and painting. It still isn't finished so no pictures yet! Then my Mom was cruising through the Greek Islands so we remodeled a bedroom and turned it into an office as a surprise for her. Alli was the instigator of this small project and I was the one that made it a huge project. Thank heavens Alli loves me. We did do a lot, but it turned out great!Alli has hidden decorating skills!My favorite thing is the missionary wall. These are the 6 missionaries from our family. Mom wanted a mission room so this wasn't just our idea. We stripped wallpaper, two toned the walls, put up crown moulding, put in a fan in the middle of a decorative, "recessed" square, put in a rug from Sara and Brad, decorated, and hung some pictures. It really did turn out nice.

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Things I Believe. The Holy Ghost.

Funny there are not a lot of pictures out there of the Holy Ghost! You will have to make do with these others that I found! Sorry Mom, I know I don't have to always be cracking jokes!
The Holy Ghost is the third member of the Godhead along with God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. Though he is one in purpose with them he is a separate being. Before Christ was crucified he reassured his friends and followers that “I will not leave you comfortless”. He taught that God would send the Comforter, “which is the Holy Ghost”
All good people can feel the influence of the Holy Ghost. Members of the Church after they are baptized are given the gift of the Holy Ghost as their constant companion if they will live worthily. It is one of the greatest gifts that God could give us.
I was given this gift after I was baptized when I was eight. I was young and didn't truly understand what the Holy Ghost was supposed to do for me. I do understand more now. This is not an all inclusive list. This is what the Holy Ghost has done for me.
  1. The Holy Ghost testifies of God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. Through this gift I know that God lives and that his has a beautiful plan in store for all of us. Through the power of the Holy Ghost I know that Christ died for me and that through Him I can live forever with those whom I love.
  2. We have been promised that the Holy Ghost "will guide you into all truth". I believe that I may know the truth of all things if I listen and respond to his promptings. This applies in not only matters of religion but also to secular matters. He has guided as to where I should live, what I should do about my children and even where I should go to school. I never would have dreamed in hundred years that I would have attended the University of Utah. I was raised in a home that attended, cheered for and adored their arch rivals, BYU. It was only after a very hard day where I, along with my parents, had fasted and prayed that I would be inspired as to where I should attend school At the end of the day Dad and Mom and I piled in the car and drove to one school where I had a full ride scholarship and we walked around the campus. It was a nice campus, it would have been great but it was not where I needed to be. We drove the 2 hour drive down to BYU. We got out and walked around. It was beautiful, it was comfortable, I knew this place, I loved this placed and yet, it was not where I was to be. I cried all the way back to Salt Lake. I was frustrated and discouraged. My Dad mentioned to me that we should drive up to the U and see what we think of that campus. We drove up to the campus. We got out of the car and walked around. It was scary (to me) and unfamiliar and the Holy Ghost told all 3 of us that this was the place where I needed to be. I cried all the way home. How could I go to this school? I hadn't even sent my ACT scores there or applied or anything. The Holy Ghost knew what my loving Heavenly Father had in store for me and going to that school was one of the best things that ever happened to me.
  3. The Holy Ghost is the Comforter. Of this I can testify loud and clear. I can only imagine how Christ's friends and family must have felt when they realized that He was dead. I hope that the Comforter came quickly for them. I have felt this comfort these last several months. Losing Dad was horribly difficult but through this difficult time I have felt even more powerfully the peace that the Spirit brings. I have felt the reassurance that I WILL see Dad again. He has brought comfort and even joy into this time of my life.

My boys have asked me what does the Holy Ghost feel like. I think it is different for everyone and it even differs for me at different times. Sometimes it is a feeling of warmth that spreads through my body other times I get chills from head to toe. Sometimes it is a thought that comes unbidden into my mind while other times it is a feeling that something is wrong or wonderfully, joyfully right! Whatever the feeling I am grateful for the gift of the Holy Ghost and I am even more thrilled that it is something that my children can and do have and that it is available to anyone who will come unto Christ, repent and be baptized.

Friday, August 1, 2008

What's that Line?


I love movies. I love to laugh, cry, be terrified, think (sometimes) and just relax and live in another world for a few hours. I have an amazing husband and almost as amazing brothers and brother-in-laws. The thing that is amazing about them is that they can see a movie once and have it memorized. These same men can't remember all their kids birthdays and may forget their own phone number but that is another matter. In honor of these men I have a list of movie lines and I want them to see how many they can get. Good luck! Let me know how many you get! Which was the hardest to get? I will post answers tomorrow.
1. "Here's looking at you, kid." (Casablanca)
2. "You need to be kissed. And often. And by someone who knows how!" (Gone With the Wind)
3. "You had me at hello" (Jerry Maguire)
4. "Toto, I've got a feeling we're not in Kansas anymore." (Wizard of Oz)
5. "That is why you fail." (Star Wars)
6. "You can't handle the truth!" (Few Good Men)
7. "I'll have what she's having." (When Harry Met Sally)
8. "You're gonna need a bigger boat." (Jaws)
9. "If you build it, he will come." (Field of Dreams)
10. "I'm not a smart man, but I know what love is." (Forrest Gump)
11. "I see dead people." (Sixth Sense)
12. "Houston, we have a problem." (Apollo 13))13. "You've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do ya, punk (Dirty Harry)
14. "There's no crying in baseball!" (League of Their Own)
15. "I feel the need — the need for speed!" (Top Gun)
16. "Carpe Diem. Seize the day, boys. Make your lives extraordinary." (Dead Poets Society)
17. You know my mama wanted me to be a farmer. -- My dad wanted me to be a baseball player. " (The Natural)
18. "Let me tell you something my friend. Hope is a dangerous thing. Hope can drive a man insane. " (Shawshank Redemption)
19. "Surely you can't be serious."- "I am serious. And don't call me Shirley." (Airplane)
20. "Nobody puts Baby in a corner." (Dirty Dancing)
21. "You like Men At Work? what men? Men at work. well where do they work? No, they're a music group. well what do they call themselves? Oh no! What about the Police? What about 'em? You ever heard them? No, but I seen them. Where, in concert? No, behind you. (Fooloose)
22. "The truth is I gave my heart away a long time ago, my whole heart, and I never really got it back." (Sweet Home Alabama)
23. "If my calculations are correct, when this baby hits eighty-eight miles per hour... you're gonna see some serious s$#@!" (Back to the Future)
24. "Let me get this straight. You know her, and she knows you, but she wants to eat him. And everyone's okay with that? DID I MISS SOMETHING?" (The Lion King)
25. "That only counts as one!!" (Return of the King)
26. "Let me explain. No, there is too much. Let me sum up." (Princess Bride)
27. "Using the whole fist, doc?" (Fletch)
28. "Let that be a lesson to you boys and girls. Don't argue with the big dog, because the big dogs always right" (Fugitive)
29. "Oh I have got to get me one of these" (Independence Days)
30. "Think they'll have THAT on the tour?" (Jurassic Park)
31. "There is nothing to fear here. --That's what worries me." (Raiders of the Lost Ark)
32. "Dogs and cats living together. Mass hysteria." (Ghostbusters)
33. "You are a boil on the butt of humanity" (Steel Magnolias)
34. "It is easier to be killed by a terrorist after the age of 40 than it is to get married -- That is not true. That statistic is not true. -- It's not true, but it feels true. --It feels true because it is true. " (Sleepless in Seattle)
35. "I want peace on Earth, and good will towards men... and women. -- We are the United States Government; we don't do that sort of thing." (Sneakers)
36. "You are born into a family. You do not join them like the Marines." (While You Were Sleeping)
That was fun. Now I gotta go watch a few movies!